May 10, 2009, 7:00pm
I felt uncomfortable with my lower abdominal pain… I thought it was normal lang with my condition, no spotting naman eh, sabi nila yun lang i-avoid ko… pero masakit talaga eh, so I decided to rest na talaga, I told Botbot about it, I went inside our room, sinundan nya ako with mommy, sabi ko masakit talaga so sabi namin punta na lang kami ng doctor the following day…
March 11, 2009, 9:00 am, Dr. Evangeline Moreno’s Clinic
I informed Dr. Vangie about the pain, tinanong nya if I had spotting, sabi ko wala naman just the pain. After checking my B/P and weight she did a TVS (transvaginal ultrasound) and found out that I have an internal bleeding, which indicates that mahina ang kapit ng baby, mejo teary-eyed na ako… she showed us also the sac, yun daw yung lalagyan ni baby, si baby di pa visible non but to see the sac talagang preggy na ako…
So with my condition she prescribed duphaston, every 8hours, in addition to the folic acid she gave me during our first visit.
I asked my OB if that bleeding would affect the development of my baby… happy to say hindi daw, even after birth. Basta the last thing she reminded us is as much as possible avoid daw ang spotting.
I was advised to have a bedrest, less physical activity muna. And since we’re about the leave in 1 week time, sabi ni doktora, it’s not advisable for me to travel muna… but we’ll see if may development sa bleeding after ko magtake ng duphaston…
On our way home, mejo tahimik ako, naluluha talaga ako but Botbot keeps on telling me na dasal and don’t worry magiging okay rin ang lahat…
I’m still so thankful kasi kahit ganon okay pa rin yung condition ni baby…
March 16, 2009
Bakit ganon pa rin, may pain pa rin so we decided to visit again my OB, kahit di pa ubos yung gamot na binigay nya.
We did another TVS, and sorry to find out na nadagdagan yung bleeding… I was on my 6th week noon, lalo na naman akong nalungkot.
We adjust my medicine intake, from trice a day; we made it 4 times a day… and continue yung bedrest. And she advised us to extend our stay for 2 weeks more kasi di talaga ko pwedeng magtravel. We have to monitor the bleeding.
And since I’m on my 6th week sabi ni doktora we can check the heartbeat of the baby, so that’s what we did, galing talaga ni God, to ease our worries we were able to see our baby’s heartbeat (see lang kasi di pa daw kaya ng Doppler yun eh)… di pa masyadong malinaw yung image ni baby though Dr. Vangie guaranteed us na okay yung development, with embryo, gestational sac, yolk sac. Our baby is progressing as normal as other babies are, despite the SCH… and with that were very thankful talaga…
Laban ng laban si baby… kapit anak!!!
March 23, 2009
Good day for us!!!
We went back again to the clinic kasi I was done with my duphaston na, we have to monitor the SCH…. The last bleeding was gone na raw and the 1st bleeding eh lumiit na, I’m really grateful that everything is okay… so balik sa dati, trice a day na lang ulit yung duphaston…
I’m supposed to take iron na but with my morning sickness bugging me… Dr. Vangie advised na wag muna since sayang lang din kasi nagvo-vomit pa ako… so stick to duphaston and folic acid muna…
March 28, 2009 (day before our flight)
(We decided to leave on March 29 para I can still rest in Riyadh before going back to work on April 4)
Our last visit to my OB, again TVS was done, as seen from our last visit wala na talaga yung bleeding and the fetal heart beat is very active… and what made our day pa is we saw the head formation and yung feet… (ang ngiti sa mga labi ni Daddy Botbot at Lola Myrna)
Dr. Vangie said na I can still take duphaston till end of the month daw then folic acid na lang… syempre she advised me to be careful pa rin, less stress and physical activity…
We went home with smile… ang sarap ng feeling if you knew that everything is okay na…
April 1, 2009
Still no work, I went to have another ultrasound to check our baby’s condition after our flight…
The heart beat was okay… that was the first time I heard our baby’s heart beat… sorry to say Botbot wasn’t there… but when I told him that I heard our baby’s heart beat, tuwang-tuwa ang daddy-to-be…
April 4, 2009
Back to work na…
Fast forward…
April 21, 2009
11am
I went to the bathroom only to find out that I have spotting, I immediately called Botbot…
Tintin: My labs, may blood sa underwear ko…
Botbot: Okay, relax lang, sabihin mo kay Marla, ask mo kung anong dapat gawin… relax ka lang…
Tintin: (P&&^%#&!!! anong relax, may blood… relax!!!)
I phoned Marla
Tintin: Marla, may dugo sa underwear ko…
Marla: Halika punta tayo employee health...
But before we left, i let Marla see the spotting... di ko naman kasi alam kung yun nga yun eh…
11:30 am, Employee Health Clinic
Tintin: Excuse me, pwede pong magpa-appointment?
Nurse: Bakit?
Tintin: May spotting po kasi ako eh…
Nurse: Kelan pa?
Tintin: Ngayon lang po, around 11am
Nurse: Buntis ka ba?
Tintin: Opo... 12 weeks...
Nurse: Okay, pero the doctor will be available by 1pm, wala ng doctor ngayon kasi 11:30 na...
Tintin: (trying to control my emotion) okay po… maghintay na lang ako dito…
Nurse: Basta pagnagbukas agad yung counter lapit kana ah, ipa-prioritize ka namin…
Tintin: Okay
Marla stayed with me… I’m trying to make myself busy, ayokong mag-isip ng negative, pati pag-iyak ko kinokontrol ko… nagtext ako kay mommy, sabi nya relax lang din daw… kasi maapektuhan yung baby pagkinakabahan ako…
Okay sige relax!!!!
1pm
Wala pa!!!
1:30pm
Wala pa rin… dumating na ang mga sisterets ko…
1:45pm
Screening muna… bp, temp, weight, history and they asked me for a urine…
2:00pm
Hay!!! Salamat, my turn na… so I went to the doctor, interview ulit… then she asked me to just go home na lang daw and gave me 3 days sick leave… while she was writing her notes, I asked the nurse if wala bang ultrasound, Wala!!! OMG, di pa rin ako mapakali cause I don’t know the condition of my baby…
2:30 pm
We were (Ann & Joy) in the lab for my blood investigation, tinawagan ko na rin si Daddy to fetch me up…
After sa lab, we decided to eat muna since hinihintay pa naman namin si daddy… while eating tumawag si Daddy, mejo male-late sya because his boss asked him to do something pa… so I stayed in Joy’s office muna till 4pm…
4:30 pm
We decided to go to other hospital to have my ultrasound, di talaga ako mapakali hanggat di ko alam ang lagay ni baby…
5:00 pm
On our way to the hospital (with my dad & mom) I was quiet, naluluha ako minsan, ewan ko ba I’m trying to control my emotion kasi I know naapektuhan si baby pero hirap eh…
8:30pm
Oo!!! We waited for almost 2hours in the hospital… so yun na nga, it’s our turn, we went inside the clinic (kami ni mommy) and interview na naman, I even told the doctor about my pregnancy condition when I was in Pinas… and I asked her if I can do an ultrasound… funny thing is hindi raw since it’s late already, close na ang ultrasound department, I can comeback tomorrow na lang daw… nyaaa!!! Maybe the doctor saw the worries in my eyes so sabi nya okay we’ll just check the baby’s heart beat (good!!! Yun lang po talaga ang gusto ko) so while I was at rest in the bed and the nurse was checking on the heart beat, feeling ko tumigil ang mundo hanggat di ko naririnig yung heart beat ni baby…
Tintin: (silently praying) Lord, please don’t let bad things happen…
Nurse: (sige check lang) ayun may heart beat… Doc, may heart beat po…
Doctor: Good
She went near the bed, checked on my pulse and said okay yung heart beat ni baby…
Tintin: Thank you Lord… (sabay ngiti)
The doctor advised me to take duphaston again until my 4th month and to have my ultrasound the following morning to check on the cause of the bleeding since may history pala ako ng SCH sa pinas…
April 22, 2009, 9am
Si daddy na lang kasama ko (di makaalis si mommy eh, walang kasama si lucas, and we don’t want to bring lucas in the hospital no…), he just dropped me in the hospital and he went to the office, tatawag na lang ako if tapos na…
Ultrasound Dept.
Aga ko… but I’ve waited for almost 1 hour… bakit??? I have to be in full bladder though according to the technician they can see the baby clearly on 12th week but my doctor has a special order, to check if the SCH is back again…
At yun nga… I’m have SCH na naman… though my baby is doing okay and progressing normally naman daw, according to the technician, active daw si baby… I saw also in the monitor na parang ang likot nga… grabe, can’t explain the feeling na kahit ganon yung condition mo is laban pa rin si baby… ang tapang…
After the ultrasound I went back to the clinic to show the result… and yun nga, I have SCH again and may nakita silang fibroid, but as per my doctor, it won’t affect my pregnancy, it will subside after pregnancy, and sabi nga nung isang mother na kasabay ko, fibroid is an additional support for the baby… so nothing to worry about…
Now, I’m taking duphaston again, trice a day and folic acid pa rin…
May 5, 2009
It’s my first official check up in our hospital, the appointment I had last April 21 was emergency lang since I had spotting nga…
9:45 am
I’m in the clinic already though my appointment is at 10:15 pa… but they ask for my urine sample then screening ulit (vital signs)…
After 30 minutes I met the doctor na, so interview na naman (feeling artista)… I told her everything, even my ultrasound outside the hospital… and I asked her if I can have an ultrasound that day to check on my baby’s condition and yung SCH na rin… so I had my ultrasound… Dr. Najla found out na nandoon pa rin yung bleeding she advised me to be more careful sa mga kilos ko… and I should be seeing a consultant na raw since my pregnancy is high risk plus I have a heart surgery history…
I was referred to a male OB, and schedule to have an appointment after 2 weeks. When I told Botbot about it….
Tintin: My labs, sabi ng doctor dapat daw OB Consultant na yung tumingin sa akin, dapat daw mamonitor talaga yung pregnancy. Ni-refer nya ako kay Dr. Salim.
Botbot: Eh di sige, ano ba yun lalaki?
Tintin: Oo, Dr. Fahad Salim
Botbot: Wala bang babae?
Tintin: Eh yun ang sabi eh, magaling daw yun.
Botbot: Okay…
Tintin: (Bakit nga kaya di na lang babae no para mas maka-relate kami sa isa’t-isa)
So I phoned my nurse friend who’s working in IVF Unit… I told her that I had my check up and I was referred to Dr. Salim.
Tintin: Kilala mo ba si Dr. Salim?
Ate Jinky: Oo, magaling nga yun kaya lang matanda na.
Tintin: Meron ka bang female OB na magaling din.
Ate Jinky: Meron naman, 2 yun eh (she even asked her colleagues)
Tintin: Yung pwede sa Business Center ah.
Ate Jinky: Pwede yun. Magaling pareho yun pero mas okay si Dr. Sherbenee kaya lang old maid and mejo masungit…
Tintin: Erase nay un, hirap naman ng masungit na OB, baka instead na ma-relax ka during your check up ma-stress ka pa…
Ate Jinky: Then go ka kay Dr. Maysoon, magaling din and mabait.
Tintin: Okay, pa-appointment na lang ako… Thank you.
So on my next check up, hopefully, I’ll meet na talaga the OB nagmagpapaanak sa akin….
Till our next adventure 